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  • Oct 1, 2018
  • 2 min read

Updated: Oct 8, 2018


The right words can lift even the lowest of spirits, whether you need a morale boost or something to ignite a fire inside you.



10. Michael Bookwalter: “We don’t wrestle to lose, we work too hard in wrestling to lose.”

9. Kenneth Haarer: “You have to regroup and go back at it.”

8. Jason Woodall: “Wrestling is very personal. When you lose you take it hard because *you* lost.”

7. Joe Porter: “I’m going to try my best and hopefully get as far as I can.”

6. Michael Bookwalter: “In wrestling, it’s not just on the mat that you can win. It’s what you learn from it.”

5. Kenneth Haarer: “In wrestling you can do all the work and all the right things and still not get where you want to be.”

4. Jason Woodall: “My goal is that they get on the mat and give it all they have.”

3. Joe Porter: “I feel like if all these people believe in me, why can’t I do it?”

2. Cevon Nguyen: "I’m going to push myself past my limits to better myself and improve as an individual.”

1. Michael Bookwalter: "How are you going to beat somebody else if you can’t beat yourself?”

What do you think of our top ten quotes? Did any one quote in particular stand out to you, tell us in the comments below! Still haven't seen the movie yet, no worries click here.

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  • Nov 25, 2017
  • 5 min read

Updated: Oct 8, 2018


The moments before a match can be nerve wracking. All your life has accumulated to this point. Every practice, every day, every breath. Past this moment is something so incredible and terrifying: The unknown. If the whole of creation came together to tell the story of the next 6 minutes of your life, they would still get it wrong. Those next 6 minutes... it’s on you. The pressure is on.

What’s so exhilarating about any big performance is that it puts life into that perspective. It makes us face who we are, and I’ll argue that no “performance” does that more effectively than wrestling. In wrestling, you’re really against yourself on that mat; your opponent is only there to push you to excel.

You can either face yourself and become better- or try to ignore the situation and regress in your progress. Since we are all human beings, we cannot afford to miss out on the mercy and blessing of self transformation. When we transform for the better, that’s the true victory in life. That’s fulfillment. Fulfillment is being alive.

“And in the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” - Abraham Lincoln

See this match, these feelings, and this moment as the opportunity to live a fuller life. Here are some points to help you get to that mindset.

WHY?

As you go on through life, you will notice more and more folks avoid answering this question because it is a lot of hard work. Well hard work is something we wrestlers are not shy of. Take this question seriously, and don’t expect to have it all figured out in five minutes. “Why” is a lifelong pursuit that you will be revisiting again, and again, and again. Just as soon as you feel like you figured it out, BAM! Life slams you, and tests your convictions, just like in wrestling.

“Once you’ve wrestled, everything else in life is easy.” - Dan Gable

Do not be afraid to ask yourself:

  • Why am I going to wrestle this match?

  • Why am I right here? Right now?

  • Am I doing this for me, or is this match greater than myself?

  • Why is my opponent here?

  • Why is this match important to me?

Going through these questions will lead to thinking about your goals, and thinking about your goals will lead you to realizing what aspect of your wrestling, yourself, and your life that you have to improve on to reach those goals.


REMEMBER!

Our lives, if we’re paying attention, should be filled with lessons we’ve learned and values we’ve developed. Pop culture motivates “forgetting the past” and having no “regrets”. I strongly disagree. Remembering and regretting is the only way we’re going to stop ourselves from making the same mistakes twice. So remember:

  • How did you get here?

  • What did you do in the last practice? The last few weeks of practice?

  • What were your greatest victories?

  • What were your greatest defeats?

  • Your opponent is another human being just like you- nothing more...

“My great concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with your failure.” - Abraham Lincoln

Remembering will this will sharpen your focus on the task at hand, which is to wrestle your best. This kind of reflection also helps a great deal in recognizing what truly doesn’t matter: like a referee’s bad call, what negative things the crowd is yelling at you, or what kind of record your opponent has.

“A wolf in the hunt doesn’t stop to scratch fleas” - Unknown

BELIEVE!

People say it over and over, and you may be getting tired of hearing it. I’m talking about the phrase “you have to believe in yourself!" Some roll their eyes just hearing it.


The people who are telling you to believe are absolutely right, though. You must believe that you have a chance, no matter who you are and who your opponent is. Ask any coach and they’ll tell you how many matches they’ve seen that left them astonished because the wrestler they were rooting against was not supposed to win.

History has proven that morale is one of humanity's greatest weapons. I am a bit of a history geek... this list of “10 Amazing Military Victories Against The Odds” get’s me excited.

Belief is real. You just have to find it in you.

Here is an excerpt on page 174 from Dan Gable's Coaching Wrestling Successfully.

You Gotta Believe

Down by five points in the last 50 seconds of the NCAA title match, freshman Lincoln Mcllravy begins to think that the end is near. Lincoln remembers it like this: “I’m ready to quit or at least start thinking defeat, but I look over to my coaches in the corner and they’re still encouraging me to score. So I think, if they still believe I can win, why shouldn't I? After a couple of takedowns, a stalling call, and a takedown with two seconds remaining, I had come all the way back to win. My opponent had been ahead the entire match, except at the end, when it counted! I have to give my coaches the credit for believing in me when I was doubting myself.”

Watch Lincoln Mcllravy's epic comeback on the video below:


I hope that you can see now that belief is no joke. Take it seriously and it will take you above and beyond.

GET OUT THERE AND WRESTLE!

One of the greatest things a coach said to me was when I was really nervous before my first match of my senior year season. He told me that, “that nervous feeling you have is just the way your body prepares to do something incredible.”

I won that match, against a 4th place district qualifier. It was only my fourth year wrestling, and it was his sixth.

From then on, I welcomed the nervousness, the calm before the storm, like a close friend.

I hope this information has helped you begin your journey to become a better wrestler, athlete, and person for striving to do your best. If you want to access more help like this, please be sure to subscribe to the blog to not miss out on the next content.

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  • Jan 19, 2017
  • 7 min read

Updated: Oct 8, 2018


A 200lb bologna in the sky brings a small Pennsylvanian city together in celebration.

Community, family, and the New Year? It’s a load of bologna! Bologna Drop follows the story of Lebanon PA, a small city, celebrating the coming of 2016 in the most unusual way possible… dropping a 12 foot long, 200-pound bologna from the sky. Witness this inspiring community strive for those in need and inner beauty.

TRAILER:


Link to full film at the bottom of the article.

“Bologna Drop” is Reel Nation Media’s latest free short film after almost 2 years of releasing free content. This article explores the making and meaning behind the film from film director, Abdullah Abu-Mahfouz.

Into the Bologna

Daniel Bills (co-founder of Reel Nation Media) and I were stuck; we were searching for local stories to make a film about, and were at that wall for about a week. One day, Daniel suddenly spoke through his chuckles with his trademark eyebrow raise, “This town drops a two-hundred pound bologna for their New Year celebration.” We had found our story.

After doing further research, we realized that this event resonated with us much deeper than we expected. The town of Lebanon, PA used this celebration as an opportunity to use what made them unique to give back to their community. At the time, Daniel and I were searching for what was unique about us and Reel Nation Media to add value to the world. This quirky but sincere celebration provided us a journey to figure this out.

We pitched the idea to Al Jazeera America, and they liked it! Their reaction was similar to ours in that they thought it was absolutely out of this world and more importantly: unlike anything else they’ve heard of. With our hearts set and a powerhouse international media company having our backs, we went greenlighted the film for development.

We were excited to grow as filmmakers in our network and in our craft.

Preproduction

At the beginning of December, Daniel made first contact with the community of Lebanon. They were completely cooperative and willing for the production. After a few more days of phone calls, research, and negotiating, we made our first visit to Lebanon around the middle of the month.

Initially we thought the story was going to be about a community coming together to break a world record and achieve a high risk, high stakes monument in a goofy fashion, but our scouting told us otherwise. We found out that the film would become about a community coming together to revive town spirit in the way that fit their strengths and tackled their weaknesses, thus resulting in a happier community that has one of the best non-profit facilities we have seen. The Lebanon Rescue Mission.

Production

Our first day was at Godshall’s Quality Meats Inc. The meat company graciously allowed us to film the creation of the bologna from start to finish. It was an experience Daniel nor I had witnessed before; it felt like a top security lab. Our footage had to be checked, we had to wear lab coats and hard hats, and be escorted everywhere we went. This is all coming from good intentions to protect the company’s renowned bologna recipe. Even with the tight security, we were given an awesome tour of the factory and got to see how they grew over the years. We realized how much they really impacted Lebanon.

We also met and interviewed Joe Ramos at the factory, who was an awesome guy to be around. He would become the leading voice of the film. On Christmas Eve, we interviewed Cheryl Batdorf, who was the president of the CLA (Commission of Lebanon). Her interview didn’t make it to the final film because of a huge mistake (you will see later). At that point, everything was going smoothly.

Unfortunately the smooth road wouldn't last for long; Al Jazeera America notified us that they were no longer interested in the bologna movie, but were interested in another film we had pitched (Refuge). It was a huge blow to us because that meant 25 full days of work in December would be unpaid (we took no days off). Should we continue with the movie? Or should we move on?

We obviously decided to stick it out. I don’t remember why to this day, but I think that’s just how we are here at Reel Nation Media. We never give up on something we believe in. Just look at Dead ED!

It wouldn’t be the last wall we faced…


On New Year’s Eve, we showed up to downtown Lebanon at noon to capture the Bologna being lifted into the air and the event being set up. Through our research and what we’ve been told, we thought that the vendors and attendees would start rolling in early in the afternoon. Little did we know that everyone would actually start arriving around 10pm. Out of ignorance and fear of missing anything important, Daniel and I naively stayed out in the cold for 10 hours (13 total, but hey who’s counting).

Today, we can guess that we caught hypothermia around 6pm that evening. I don’t know about Daniel, but I spent the following week as a fragile, sick man buried under blankets. I’ve never felt so cold in my entire life.

When 10pm hit, people finally started showing up and so did the vendors. The DJ and Salvation Army Truck you see in the film were filmed at that time. The rest is in the movie, filmed with frozen fingers and joints. By the time the bologna dropped, we had grown to hate our lives. I think that’s something that is still clearly reflected in the end product. I don’t think it’s our best work by a long shot.


With our production dropped by AJAM and our bodies giving in, we really had little will to continue on with this film. I think all artists/creators can relate to the feeling of making something you really have no heart for anymore; it feels like you’re killing apart of your passion for your craft. That’s what it certainly felt like while laying down sick and chilled to the bone while stressing about how to pay the company’s overhead and our personal bills. But we are Reel Nation Media, and we never give in.

To the right is our (Daniel left, Abdullah right) frozen faces selfie while filming.


Not giving up was entirely worth it. The next Monday we visited Lebanon Rescue Mission to see what had become of the Bologna. There we saw it being distributed to the needy. We had the pleasure of interviewing Jenny Topping, a woman whose whole professional life had been, and still is, dedicated to volunteering and giving back to the community. Seeing the positive end result of the bologna and meeting a person with a character like Jenny’s made us remember the biggest reason why we set out to make this film: to find inspiration.


I can’t believe I’m saying it, but through the Bologna Drop, I found inspiration to mold Reel Nation Media’s Mission Statement to what it is today: To unite virtuous, sincere artists and audiences to inspire truth, understanding, hope, and reform, within themselves and the world, in a beautiful, powerful, and enjoyable journey through the media arts. For a creator to inspire those virtues within himself is what I took away from this movie. Seeing what positivity could be accomplished in this world made me realize that the physical journey of making the media art can be like a pilgrimage for the spirit.

Post Production


The inspiration I learned above was sparked by visiting the Lebanon Rescue Mission, but it wasn’t fully realized until one year later, December 2016, when I had to edit the movie. The reason that it took so long was another wall I ran into; I accidentally deleted Cheryl Batdorf’s interview while organizing the editing project. We planned for her to be the leading voice of the film... It was one of those times where you couldn't hate yourself more. SHAME!

It wasn’t until the next New Year was approaching when I mustered enough courage to tackle the edit again. I realized that my mistake actually gave me an advantage. Cheryl’s point of view came out to be just as an organizer, whereas Joe Ramos’ perspective was both an organizer and a community member attending the event. It turned out that the unfortunate event worked out in our favor.

In the end, here are the 3 biggest things I took away from the Bologna Drop:

  1. Creating film and other art can be an outer pilgrimage/journey for inner growth and change.

  2. Inspiration has a chain effect. The community of Lebanon inspired us to finish this short film because what they were doing was inspiring in itself.

  3. Learning late is better than never.

That’s a Wrap!

Finishing a small project like this for non-monetary gain has lead us to a much deeper growth. We now want to make short films like these much more often so we can come to a better understanding of our mission and the world around us. More importantly, we want you, the audience, to experience that same inspiration for yourself when you watch the end product. By doing more shorter pieces, we hope to learn more about you, our audiences, and how you want to be inspired and changed for the better.

Keep it Reel!

WATCH THE FULL 6 MINUTE MOVIE AT: https://youtu.be/ljgLOlJ4rME

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